It’s a good day.

I’ve blogged before about what makes a good day. Is it sleep the night before? When things are going the way you want them to? Or is it just the attitude you have toward the day? I think it’s all of these things and more. I think a good day comes from knowing where God wants you and standing in the middle of it. There may be a storm all around you, but as long as you know you’re where you’re supposed to be, doing what you’re supposed to be doing, it’s a good day. Today is a good day.

Didn’t sleep last night, but that’s not new. Both kids had bad dreams. Ellie ended up sleeping on the couch. She came into our room bright and early. Was it 6 A.M.? Does it matter? I had already been up for a while praying and listening and imagining I was still asleep, but once she came in the day began. Rick jumped into the shower – okay, slithered may be a more accurate term – and Ellie climbed up in bed with me. We began our daily ritual of me pretending it’s nighttime and her insisting it’s daytime. As she flung open the blind to show me the blue sky, she noticed one of her children’s Bibles in the stacks of books that line our bedroom. Thus began story time. We took turns reading Bible stories for about half an hour until Zach meandered in sleep-eyed and adorable in his footed pajamas. Time for food.

There are a few things consistent with all Dennis men. Once their minds are made up, they’re made up. Negotiations, manipulation, begging, even feminine wiles mean very little and often evoke the opposite of intended results. Secondly, they need food to function. No fancy-schmancy girl food, either. Real food. Something of substance. Zach, for example, will eat an entire pound of bacon all by himself. Did I mention he’s two? Yeah. Once Zach wakes up the clock starts ticking. Gotta get food in him or the family’s equilibrium will quickly be upset. Fortunately, I went to the grocery store yesterday!

Blueberry pancakes with some Laurie Berkner and Go Fish! in the background. A perfect morning. Oh, and did I mention the after breakfast workout? The kids decided to tackle me repeatedly on Zach’s bed, which is really just a mattress lying on the floor. (We’re still deciding how to do his “big boy” room.) Well, this resulted in about forty crunches on my part with 34-40 pound weights (a.k.a. my children) wiggling around on my legs. That’s the most intense exercising I’ve done in at least a week!

Yup, it’s a good day. Zach has even gone in the potty twice already this morning. It’s not that things are going well. We’ve had our share of sibling arguments this morning as well, and Zach was not exactly thrilled about wearing underwear today; Ellie’s been whining because the rain is sure to destroy her plans to ride bikes today.

It’s a good day because I know I’m right where I belong doing what I’m supposed to be doing. I’m a mom and I’m taking care of my kids the best way I know how. I’m training them to know God and live a life that honors Him. Hopefully I’m being an example of how to love Him with all their hearts. It’s a good day because I know my purpose and am taking the small steps necessary to fulfill it.

Advertisement

Posted on July 7, 2008, in parenting, purpose. Bookmark the permalink. 6 Comments.

  1. Real Live Preacher

    Glad to hear a woman speak of girl food. We men talk about girl food all the time, when we’re alone.

    We’re off on vacation. Two oldest daughters are both vegetarians, so we get girl food AND veggie stuff. My wife said, “I’m going to make a big thing of pasta and everyone can put whatever they want in it.”

    yay!!!!

    I said, “I’ll have a bowl of chili in my pasta, but go ahead and hold the pasta.”

  2. LOL. I love it! That would be my husband and every man on his side of the family. I can get away with one girly meal a week. Other than that, the chick food has to stay on the side, perferably the side of a thick juicy steak.

  3. Tickling with the kids on the bed is DEFINITELY indication of a good day!!

    Thanks so much for stopping by my site – nice to see you. Hope to see you again soon. Take care – Kellan

  4. We are THAT Family

    What a great post! I need to retrace my steps, I think. Because the first day after a week’s vacation ain’t turning out so grand. I’m tired, have tons of work to do and my kids are squabbling over everything!

  5. Many years ago, a godly woman whom i greatly admire told me that if I wanted things to go well in my marriage the first thing I needed to remember was to “feed my man.”

    As I have grown in the Lord and in my marriage, I have found that to be true with both my husband and my son…

    I have to laugh when I read about Abigail and David, or Esther and the King (there are others but I’m suddenly drawing a blank!), feeding their men before asking for anything else!

    ;)

  6. Monica @ Paper Bridges

    hey, you. you were kidding about that picture, right?

    Laurie Berkner is fun! what a great way to eat pancakes.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

Gravatar
WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s

Follow

Get every new post delivered to your Inbox.

Join 1,171 other followers