Being a Child

With her big blue eyes and soft curls, Isabel rested her face in her hands. She smiled the world’s purest smile and sighed. “It’s fun being a child.”

Sometimes I forget she’s only two. She’ll be three in a couple weeks, but she is still so young! Then such profound statements roll off her tongue … I am lost in the wonder of God. How could He pack so much delight, intelligence, creativity, perception and enthusiasm in such a tiny package? She is beyond amazing to me, and the God who created her is unfathomable. I cannot even begin to comprehend all that He is.

In addition to His character is the truth of His love.

“How great is the love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are!” – 1 John 3:1 (NIV)

I think about Isabel’s statement. My teenage years were a blast! Without hesitation I admit: it’s fun being a teen. But being a child? That’s a different story. My parents’ divorce and the circumstances causing and extending from that filled my childhood with fear, doubt and insecurity. I didn’t know where I belonged and I never wanted to be where I was. I was lonely. I was lost. I was angry. It was not fun being a child.

I am so grateful Isabel and Zach have a different story. It is because of the differences they can enjoy their childhood. What was lacking in my childhood is present in theirs. Best of all, what is lacking from even their childhood is present in a relationship with God, the perfect Father.

As I’ve grown up, my ideas of fun have changed drastically. Once upon a fun always included a large group of people, wild activities and often loud music. Now, I love staying home and watching tv with only one person (my husband, of course). Fun isn’t always what you’re doing. It’s your circumstances and your attitude.

It’s fun being a child of God, not because we have the best toys and crazy parties, but because of the security and peace found in knowing we are fully loved by an awesome, faithful Father. It’s difficult to be bored when you recognize every day is a gift. You can’t easily be depressed when you have a Savior who not only sees past your superficial persona, but knows all your deepest, darkest secrets and loves you in spite of them. I’m not saying life is wonderful and filled with cotton candy. Christians have trials just like everybody else. But as children of God, we find security, safety, love, peace, joy, rest … everything we need and more in our Holy Father God. We know He is fully capable of anything and everything we request. Furthermore, we know He loves us and will give us what is best for us. In that we find immeasurable freedom. What’s more fun than freedom?

Posted on February 16, 2007, in child, encouragement, Father, God's love, safety. Bookmark the permalink. 7 Comments.

  1. You are so right, the best things are only found in God. I related to what you shared about your personal life, only it was at the onset of adolescence that my parents split, so the teen years knew a lot of heartache for me. Like you, I am thankful that my teens were able to enjoy theirs because of God’s healing in my life. (And I love hearing about Isabel!)

  2. Anna Stone Smith

    This is lovely, Tayna. I think you could easily turn this into an article.

  3. Now I am trying this again Tanya,wish me luck….If you have this twice delete one of them..

    Your stories of Isabel always brings a huge smile to my face…:) I have heaps of quotes my children said when they were small children, I often get a little teary when I go back in time and read them, really wonderful memories….

    I too can relate to what you said about your teen years, wild, parties, late nights,etc., My parents never divorced but there was plenty of domestics… This reflected on me and my sibling’s behaviour as teenagers. I could quite easily have chosen to become angry and get even with society. But I chose to follow God, and I admit at times I turned away from Him and chose to go it alone and plod along a life without him … It took some time for me to accept God back into my life….Now, I will never again let Him go….The best things are found only in God ….

  4. Thank you, ladies, for your kind words. It’s so wonderful to share God and His goodness with friends like you!!

  5. Stumbled upon your post, loved it. We often forget the blessing of being His child. Thanks for the reminder,

    Peace
    Neva

  6. Tanya … glad we’ve met across blog land. Anxious to look around your site some.

    Blessings,

    Trey

  7. Neva & Trey: Thank you both for stopping by! :)

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